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Oh, My Word! Did You Hear Why…


he stopped coming to Sunday School?  she quit working in the nursery?  they are moving their membership?  they removed their kids from youth activities?  she wants nothing to do with the church anymore?  Let me tell ya…

There’s a bevy of reasons why people do what they do.  Legitimate reasons.  And yes, some folk use anything as an excuse to do nothing.  However, many come to churches today and see a white-washed extension of the world they want to escape.  When people come to church, most seek a place of hope, of love, of kindness.  They do not want a place filled with division, sniping, and whispers.  They have plenty of people in their lives who pretend to care, who are judgmental and condemning.  They need sincerity, acceptance and genuine love.  Instead of Light, they see shadows of God’s love. The psalmist understood this all too well when he said:

“They visit me as if they were my friends, but all the while they gather gossip,and when they leave, they spread it everywhere.” Psalm 41:6

Ever had that happen to you?  Ever share your heartache, your burden, your failings with another in confidence, only to have them spread it all around? 

It’s a sad thing when Christians carry tales and negativity.  A faithful disciple of Jesus Christ resists the temptation to gossip and share tidbits of inflamatory or confidential information.  Even when the information is true, it is not wise to share it with others.  It hurts the body of Christ.  It stomps on the toes of the Bride of Christ.  It steps on the hem of her gown as she walks down the aisle to her Groom and tears apart the collective body of Believers.  It stifles the fragrance of mercy and grace she carries in her bouquet.  It clouds the radiance of her joy, love, and hope.  It smothers the truth of God with a veil of deception and hindrance. 

Gossip.  Tale-bearing cloaked as sharing is gossip when one does not have another’s permission to share.  It hurts.  It crushes the spirit.  It impedes Christian growth.

Have you found yourself as the target of gossip and whispers?  I pray you find someone with whom you can feel safe.  I pray you lean on them and do not allow one or two to destroy your faith in all.  I pray you understand and know that people (even Christian people), are not God.  Jesus loves you as you are.  He will help you and keep you and give you strength to carry on in the midst of every trial you have.  While you may not be able to trust some people, you can trust God.

Lord, help us not to fall prey to the baser qualities of our nature.  Help us quench any desire to divulge knowledge that may harm the body of Christ and color His bride with talk that serves no good purpose.  Let us prepare our hearts for the day of Your return and seek to walk humbly in Your sight until then. 

© Hariette Petersen, SelahV Today, 2011

How Can Life Go On When It Isn’t?


John 14:1-Jesus Comforts His Disciples ]   “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God ; trust also in me (NIV)

How can things be the same when they are so different? Yesterday, Ron and I were still together in our little house. The family came to be with us. Charles and Tabetha brought lunch. Judith and I ate our standared white chicken with baked potato. Ron rested. The grandchildren play high-spirited games around our feet. This was all too familiar to us.

But yesterday,Ron rested in a hospital bed, on morphine for pain, seldom conscious. The grands looked at Afi (Icelandic for Grandpa) and said..”Afi sleeping. Night Afi.” and went on playing and trusting and expecting their parents to keep things right. And the adults? We cried some, reminised some, feared some……while the grands, knowing they were loved…trusted in that love.

Today Ron is with Jesus. Eventually the rest of us  remember that God loves us too. We know Jesus. We have right relationships with God……and we determine once more  to trust him…because he makes all things right–even when everything seems so wrong…

Prayer- Thank you God that you give us hope in the depths of darkness….Amen

Brenda J Wood http://heartfeltdevotionals.wordpress.com

Live One Day at a Time


This can be harder to do than we think. I have friends, who are facing the loss of a loved one. Cancer has ravaged his body for a long time, but he has always rallied round and returned to ‘face another day’: now, with the addition of an infection, he has been rendered unable to continue the fight – his wife faces the eventuality of life without him, sooner rather than later.

The only comfort to be obtained from this reality, is that they are both very strong in their faith and in their love of God through Jesus Christ – how else do you endure the emotional roller-coaster that long-term illness brings; knowing that your body and its’ immune defenses have reached their limit, and can no longer fight the invading cells within.

Non-believers often scoff at our belief in an unseen God, and I admit it can seem rather unrealistic – but I know – without any shadow of doubt, that this unseen God has ‘pulled me through’ some pretty difficult situations in the past and has healed where medical staff have given up hope. I cannot explain how it works – all I know is that it does! He provides for us in ways we do not understand – what we have to do is trust in His works in our lives, and continue to have faith that all that He provides is for our betterment – after all, without this belief in a good God – what’s the point of living?.

Psalm 23 – says it all

The Lord is my Shepherd (relationship)
I shall not want (supply)
He makes me to lie down in green pastures (rest)
He leads me beside the still waters (refreshment)
He restores my soul (healing)
For His names’ sake ((purpose)
Yea, though I walk through the valley – of the shadow of death (testing)
I will fear no evil (protection)
For You are with me (faithfulness)
Your rod and Your staff comfort me (discipline)
You prepare a table before me, in the presence of my enemies (hope)
You anoint my head with oil (consecration)
My cup runs over (abundance)
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life (blessing)
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. (security)

In times of trial or testing, all we can do is “hang in there” and “hang on” to God, because if we do not have faith that He is ready, willing and able to help us – what else is there – surely all that is left is utter despair – and that is not a good or nice place to be!

Prayer: We do not understand how Your Way works – all we know is that it does, and we are thankful for that. Grant us, Father, the wisdom to hear You and trust in You and all that You provide; only then will we be equipped to take the next right step and take one day at a time. Amen!

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What More Could a Mother Ask?


The Bible says that the barren woman should sing because they did not bear children and the spiritual children of the desolate one will be more than all the children of the married wife.      (Isaiah 54:1-AMP)

My friend never married and while she doesn’t miss a husband too much, she used to regret not giving birth to a child. Now she smiles and admits she only missed out on stretch marks, labour pains and college fees.

While most parents and grandparents strive to raise blood relative grandchildren, she’s been  able to spend her energy, wisdom and love on many spiritual children.

After all, the Bible says ‘He makes the barren woman to be a homemaker and a joyful mother of spiritual children’ (Psalm 113:9 -AMP)

And little by little, over the years, she has become the spiritual mother who influenced young lives for good.

Today her life is full and overflowing with all the children she thought she would never have.

Her offspring possess the nations and make desolate cities to be inhabited (Isaiah 54:3 AMP)

She may not have physically given birth but her heart has not missed out on any parental love.

Barren? Not her! She claims motherhood to hundreds, and grandma to thousands! She laughs with delight and asks “What more could a mother ask?”

Prayer- Lord, when we don’t like our circumstances, teach us to trust you in them and expect the best. Amen

Bible Verses About Faith


Below are several Bible verses about faith.  Feel free to add your favorite in the comment box.

FAITH DEFINED:

Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. This is what the ancients were commended for.” Hebrews 11:1-2

“By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God’s command, so that what is seen was not made out of what was visible.” Hebrews 11:3

“And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.” Hebrews 11:6

WHEN YOUR FAITH IS TESTED:

“Though I walk in the midst of trouble, You will revive me; You will stretch forth Your hand against the wrath of my enemies, and Your right hand will save me.”  Psalm 138:7

“Call to Me and I will answer you and show you great and mighty things which you do not know.” Jeremiah 33:3

“Be assured and understand that the trial and proving of your faith bring out endurance and steadfastness and patience.”  James 1:3

“The Lord will perfect that which concerneth me.” Psalm 138:8

“In the day when I called, You answered me; and You strengthened me with strength in my inner self.”  Psalm 138:3

“For this reason I also suffer these things; nevertheless I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able to keep what I have committed to Him until that Day.” 2 Timothy 1:12

“Happy is he who has the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God.” Psalm 147:5

FAITH PROMISES

“The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call upon Him sincerely and in truth.” Psalm 145:18

“The Lord is good to those who wait hopefully and expectantly for Him, to those who seek Him.”  Lamentations 3:25

“The Lord upholds all those (of His own) who are falling and raises up all those who are bowed down.” Psalm 145:14

“Faithful is He that calleth you, Who will also do it.” 1 Thessalonians 5:24

ACTIONS OF FAITH

“Behold the proud, His soul is not upright in him; But the just shall live by his faith.” Habbakuk 2:4

“The Lord is my portion, says my living being; therefore will I hope in Him and wait expectantly for Him.” Lamentations 3:24

“When Jesus heard [it], He marveled, and said to those who followed, “Assuredly, I say to you, I have not found such great faith, not even in Israel!” Matthew 8:10

“But He said to them, “Why are you fearful, O you of little faith?” Then He arose and rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was a great calm.”  Matthew 8:26

“Then behold, they brought to Him a paralytic lying on a bed. When Jesus saw their faith, He said to the paralytic, “Son, be of good cheer; your sins are forgiven you.” Matthew 9:2

“But Jesus turned around, and when He saw her He said, “Be of good cheer, daughter; your faith has made you well.” And the woman was made well from that hour.” Matthew 9:22

“Then He touched their eyes, saying, “According to your faith let it be to you.” Matthew 9:29

“And immediately Jesus stretched out [His] hand and caught him, and said to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?”  Matthew 14:31

 

“Then Jesus answered and said to her, “O woman, great [is] your faith! Let it be to you as you desire.” And her daughter was healed from that very hour.”  Matthew 15:28

“But Jesus, being aware of [it], said to them, “O you of little faith, why do you reason among yourselves because you have brought no bread? Matthew 16:8

“So Jesus said to them, “Because of your unbelief; for assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you.” Matthew 17:20

“So Jesus answered and said to them, “Assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith and do not doubt, you will not only do what was done to the fig tree, but also if you say to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the sea,’ it will be done.” Matthew 21:21

“When Jesus saw their faith, He said to the paralytic, “Son, your sins are forgiven you.” Mark 2:5

“And He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well. Go in peace, and be healed of your affliction.” Mark 5:34

“Then Jesus said to him, “Go your way; your faith has made you well.” And immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus on the road.” Mark 10:52

“When Jesus heard these things, He marveled at him, and turned around and said to the crowd that followed Him, “I say to you, I have not found such great faith, not even in Israel!” Luke 7:9

“Then He said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you. Go in peace.” Luke 7:50

RESULTS OF FAITH:

“By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family. By his faith he condemned the world and became heir of the righteousness that is in keeping with faith.”  Hebrews 11:7

“By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going. By faith he made his home in the promised land like a stranger in a foreign country; he lived in tents, as did Isaac and Jacob, who were heirs with him of the same promise. For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God.” Hebrews 11:8-10

“And by faith even Sarah, who was past childbearing age, was enabled to bear children because she considered him faithful who had made the promise. And so from this one man, and he as good as dead, came descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as countless as the sand on the seashore.” Hebrews 11:11-12

“All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance, admitting that they were foreigners and strangers on earth. 14 People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own. 15 If they had been thinking of the country they had left, they would have had opportunity to return. 16 Instead, they were longing for a better country—a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them.” Hebrews 11:13-16

“By faith Abraham, when God tested him, offered Isaac as a sacrifice. He who had embraced the promises was about to sacrifice his one and only son, even though God had said to him, “It is through Isaac that your offspring will be reckoned.” Abraham reasoned that God could even raise the dead, and so in a manner of speaking he did receive Isaac back from death.” Hebrews 11:17-19

“By faith Joseph, when his end was near, spoke about the exodus of the Israelites from Egypt and gave instructions concerning the burial of his bones.

“By faith Moses’ parents hid him for three months after he was born, because they saw he was no ordinary child, and they were not afraid of the king’s edict.” Hebrews 11:23

“By faith Moses, when he had grown up, refused to be known as the son of Pharaoh’s daughter. He chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin.  He regarded disgrace for the sake of Christ as of greater value than the treasures of Egypt, because he was looking ahead to his reward. By faith he left Egypt, not fearing the king’s anger; he persevered because he saw him who is invisible. By faith he kept the Passover and the application of blood, so that the destroyer of the firstborn would not touch the firstborn of Israel.” Hebrews 11:24-28

“By faith the people passed through the Red Sea as on dry land; but when the Egyptians tried to do so, they were drowned.” Hebrews 11:29

“By faith the walls of Jericho fell, after the army had marched around them for seven days.” Hebrews 11:30

The Duck Family


“He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.” (Psalm 91:4, NIV)

As my son and I were leaving his music lesson, he called my attention to a mama duck and her fourteen ducklings.  Although tiny and only a day or two old, they closely followed their mama as she led them in and out of the protection of some shrubs near the spot where I had parked the car. Because my mind was on tackling the next thing on my to-do list, I didn’t even notice these precious creatures. How thankful I am that my son wasn’t too preoccupied with his own agenda to see them!  Regrettably, I had left home without my camera and had only my cell phone with which to take pictures. Knowing that my phone’s camera wouldn’t do justice to our discovery, we drove home to pick up my digital camera and my daughter, then we returned to the site where we saw the ducks, hoping that they would still be there. It took several minutes of searching for them, but we finally found them on the pond of a nearby retirement center. 
 
As we watched this family of mallards, God impressed upon me some truths which I was able to share with my children. First, just as the mama duck did her brood, he covers us with his feathers and hides us under his wings, sheltering and protecting us from the dangers of living in this world (Psalm 91:4-9). Although we initially only saw one duckling with its mother, there were actually fourteen hiding beneath the wings! Only when she stood could we see them all. God’s wings are large enough to cover all his children! 
  
Secondly, as we draw near to God through prayer and obey his commands to us in the Scriptures, we become more like him. As the mama and daddy ducks communicated with each other and with their ducklings, the babies were swift to obey and follow their mama, trusting that she and daddy knew best and would keep them safe. 
 
 Lastly, as we watched them and listened to them communicate with each other, we witnessed an amazing sight. The mama duck waddled to the water, jumped in, and swam across the pond to where the daddy stood, knowing her ducklings would find safety if they chose to follow her. The little ones instinctively obeyed her call, jumping into the water for what may have been their first swim. When they got to the opposite shore, each one struggled to make it up the slippery shoreline and onto dry ground. Not one duckling made it out of the water on the first attempt, but each persevered, with the encouragement of their parents and siblings, until they managed to find safety on the other shore.
 
The dependence of these ducklings upon their parents to guide and keep them safe so clearly illustrated for me the need we all have for God’s loving guidance and care. My children and I were no real threat, but the little ducklings didn’t know that. They huddled together, encouraged each other, and obeyed the commands of the loving parents whom they trusted to keep them safe. God is no less a loving parent; in fact, he has proven over and over to me that Father truly does know best!
 
Copyright © 2011 by Dee Dee Wike.  All rights reserved.  www.deedeewike.com  

  

  

The Weight and Wait of Love


Ever feel weighted down by the heartache of others? Marriage problems. Betrayals. Various trials and persecutions. False accusations. You counsel, advise and share the discernment the Lord has given you. You struggle to right a wrong; you wear your knees out praying for wisdom. Your mind spins with words to say and logic to impart to help. Yet, your heart is heavier than when you began praying.

I have learned the hard way that the more I try to help God, the more stuff starts piling on. In other words, I cannot do what God wants to do. When I try, He shows me the futility of trying to do things in my own power. He lets me exhaust myself and my ideas.

We can really only make decisions for ourselves. Others must make their own. After sharing all we know to share, and praying as He leads, we really do need to say, “Thy will be done, Lord,” and mean what we say.

Do you have loved ones going through trying circumstances? Divorce.  Job loss.  Financial struggles. Do you talk till you run out of words to share and find all your conversations running in circles? You wonder, did I say the wrong thing? did I forget to say something right? Do you pray and get impatient that God does not intervene as you think He should?

What keeps us from trusting God? Independence. The I-can-do-it-myself syndrome.

We can’t trust God when we’re depending upon ourselves. Some situations in life are far beyond our ability to fix. A problem we see that needs our intervention, may be God’s cocoon of struggle to strengthen. Seriously. Can we love our loved ones more than God does? We must think we do or we’d be willing and able to accept God’s timetable. We’d relax and stop trying to fix what He will take care of. Unless it is a direct leading from Him, our job is simply to be available to undergird, to be a leaning post, an intercessor of prayer, or an encourager to look to Him Who knows the perfect answer and to point others to Him. It’s up to others to deal with their decisions, their choices, and their consequences. To have peace in our lives we must let go and let God work in everyone’s life as He sees fit. When we let go of the weight of love, the Lord blesses us with the peace and grace of His.

“My times are in Thy hand: deliver me from the hand of mine enemies, and from them that persecute me.” Psalm 31:15 ESV

PRAYER: Lord, forgive us when we try to get ahead of You. Help us understand when to act and when to pray. Help us help others learn to wait on You and Your timetable.

 © Hariette Petersen, SelahV Today, 2011

Who Do You Trust?


It troubles some people when others do not share their mistakes and how God helped them deal with the aftermath.  Many people find it difficult to open up and share problems they have, or the struggles they face as a result of a poor choice or impulsive decision.  They are basically afraid to trust others with their burdens.  Yet, the Lord tells us to share our burdens so we will be able to comfort and encourage one another.

Unfortunately, for some, residue of betrayal compounds the issues surrounding trust and burden-sharing.  Jacob had a hard time with that after he betrayed his brother and father.

Then Isaac said to Jacob, “Come near so I can touch you, my son, to know whether you really are my son Esau or not.” Genesis 27:21

A wife betrays her husband and her son Esau.  Jacob betrayed his brother and father.  In this account, Isaac relied upon his feelings–the touch of hair upon the arms of his son, but still wasn’t convinced.  Minutes later, he queries Jacob again, “Are you really my son, Esau?”  Isaac dismissed what he sensed as duplicity when he smelled wild game on Jacob when they embraced.  He was fooled. 

How do we know how to trust another? When to trust?  It varies.  I’m usually an open book; I wear my heart on my sleeve.  I try to think the best of people.  I look for the good in them.  Even when I see flaws or find aspects of a person’s personality suspect, I keep giving the benefit of the doubt.  I choose to believe.  Just like Isaac believed Jacob, even though he did not sound like his son Esau.

It’s doesn’t make any sense that a person we care about would betray our confidences.  But it happens.  I suppose for me, I am far more likely to open up and trust someone who opens up and trusts me.  However that is not the best litmus test.  Some people talk your head off just to get you to reveal something about yourself so they can go share it with the first person they run into.

I reserve my innermost trials for a select few who have proven faithful and loyal.  I rely on those who never share what another says to them.  I find their interest in me, and concern for me, as a safe space for sharing.  God brings them into my life in a time of need.  They comfort and encourage; they pray and console.  I can also trust my pastor and his wife with anything.  I can trust my husband completely.  

When I am betrayed, I plunge into a world of retreat and isolation.  Back, back, back I go, into the arms of God.  To Whom I know I can trust completely.  Without reserve or fear.

PRAYER:  Always, Lord; we can trust You.  You are our refuge, the cleft of the rock.  We know we can come to You with everything and You will strengthen us, comfort us, and assure us. 

© Hariette Petersen, SelahV Today, 2011