Life Support for a Worrywart
Worrying seems to be a trait common to those who like structure and predictability. I confess I worry until I can bring my troubles to the Lord, but I didn’t realize that my worrying was actually a demonstration of my lack of trust. Then Proverbs 19:3 caught my eye during my daily Bible reading:
“The foolishness of man perverteth his way: and his heart fretteth against the Lord.” Proverbs 19:3
I like the word “fretting” even though it is not used as commonly as in times past. If you don’t know what fretting is, know that it means agitated from worrying. We all worry, but fretting seems so much more intense and longer lasting.
We can liken fretting with a dog chewing a bone. He gnaws and gnaws and gnaws but seems to accomplish very little in breaking down a good strong bone. Fretting accomplishes nothing worthwhile.
Unconsciously seeking a way around what God is doing, fretting signals a desire to wrest control from the Almighty. It is as if we are saying to Him, “step aside, I can do better.” Fretting reveals our ignorance of God’s just nature and righteous character. (Acts 3:13-14, 1 John 2:1).
Playing the “what if” game leads to reactions ranging from mild fear to total terror. The Apostle Paul understood fear. Think about how many times he entered into a city wondering if his testimony of Jesus would lead to beatings, stoning, and imprisonment. Yet despite his sufferings, he refused to give in to fear. His secret is found in Philippians 4:7:
“The peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
Learning that the Lord is able and willing to help in time of need is critical to developing trust. Start developing your faith with these three steps:
First: Read God’s Word, highlighting the many promises He makes to us. Here are some of my favorites:
“My God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19
“And this is the confidence that we have in Him, that, if we ask any thing according to His will, He heareth us: and if we know that He hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of Him.” 1 John 5:14-15
“So that we may boldly say, the Lord is my helper and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.” Hebrews 13:6
“…The Lord is the strength of my life…” Psalm 27:1
“I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I have committed unto Him against that day.” 2 Timothy 1:12
Second: Pray for more faith. This is a prayer you can be assured He will answer.
“For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith.” 1 John 5:4
Third: Submit yourself to God, allowing Him to do what’s best for you. Consider this verse in the Book of Romans: “For they being ignorant of God’s righteousness, and going about to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God.” Romans 10:3
Take to heart the words of the father of the demon possessed child in Mark 9:24, “…Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief.” If we are so foolish as to reject our Lord’s aid because of unbelief, we will unnecessarily fulfill the beginning of Proverbs 19:3: “The foolishness of man perverteth his way”. Then we really will have something to worry about.
Copyright © 2011 Linda Hull, Words of Encouragement

